Appearance v Reality: Unlocking the Closed Doors of Youth Mental Health

Featuring REAL conversations with best-selling author Julie Fingersh & The Just a Mom podcast creator and host Susie Gurley, and Bernadette Spooner Thompson. Guests include youth with lived experience and other local behavioral health experts, all with unique lenses on this critical topic.

Dear Friend,

Mental health, stress, anxiety, and depression — these topics appear in the news almost as often as the weather forecast. Yet, we often discuss them only in brief sound bites about the nation’s mental health crisis, especially among youth. We hear statistics about self-harm, eating disorders, bullying, social media pressures, and more. But how often are we really talking about it? Too often, privacy concerns and fear of stigma prevent honest conversations and keep many from seeking help. 

We can do better. Last year, Seton launched a pilot program called Seton CARES to provide free therapy and skill building  classes for Jackson County youth ages 10-18. Now in it’s second year, the program is growing. This year, we would like to do more!

Event Details

Wednesday, April 29, 2026 8:30 am - 3:30 pm*

Registration Includes breakfast & lunch, copies of Stay, A Story of Family, Love and Other Traumas
& other trauma-informed resources.

Presented by Seton Center with the support of Mary Lew & Marcus McCarty.

Where

Kauffman Foundation
4801 Rockhill Road
Kansas City, MO 64110

Contact

Contact development@setonkc.org with questions or for more information!

Join us in kicking off Mental Health Awareness Month by sponsoring or attending Appearance v Reality: Unlocking the Closed Doors of Youth Mental Health, hosted at the Kauffman Foundation on April 29th at 8:30 a.m.

Together, we’ll go beyond surface-level discussions to explore what happens when we ignore mental health struggles—or when we finally open up and talk about them.

The event will feature:

  • Candid conversation between Julie Fingersh, award-winning author of Stay: A Story of Family, Love and Other Traumas, and Susie Gurley, founder and host of The Just a Mom podcast
  • Youth Panel with lived experience including suicidal ideation, eating disorder, self-harm, gender identity, homelessness and more. Hosted by Michael Duncan, Seton CARES Program Director.
  • Cultural Moral Injury by local leader and speaker Bernadette Spooner Thompson Q & A with local behavioral health experts with lenses on how factors such as race, faith, gender, and generational poverty can influence mental health outcomes.
  • Breakout sessions to include Mental Health First Aid, Conflict Resolution for Youth, CALM Training and What is Allyship?

We hope you’ll join us for this meaningful conversation and take part in unlocking the closed doors of youth mental health. Breaks will be offered for mindfulness and a reset throughout the day!

Warm regards,
Stacy Mayer
CEO

Presenting - $25,000

Pathway - $10,000

Growth - $5,000

Nurture - $2,500

Seed - $1,500

Individual Ticket - $60

Tentative Program Schedule

8:30 am Registration & Continental Breakfast

9:00 am Welcome & Introduction

9:15 - 10:00 am Fireside Chat with Guest Speakers Julie Fingersh & Susie Gurley

Julie is the best-selling author of Stay, A Story of Family, Love and Other Traumas. Susie is the
founder & host of The Just a Mom podcast

10:00 - 10:30 am Q & A

10:30 - 10:40 am Mindfulness & Break

10:40 - 11:30 am Lived Experience Youth Panel

Moderated by Michael Duncan and featuring youth with lived experience including suicidal
ideation, homelessness, domestic violence, eating disorder, and self harm

11:30 am - noon Q & A

12:00 - 12:30 pm Lunch Break

12:30 - 1:10 pm Cultural Moral Injury with Bernadette Spooner Thompson

Q& A panel featuring Youth Behavioral Health experts, including: Michael Duncan (Seton Center CARES program creator & Program Director), Jessica Doane (Resolve Counseling), Jonathan Ruiz, LMSW, bilingual (Spanish and English) outpatient child therapist at Swope Health specializing in child and adolescent behavioral health.

1:10-1:40 pm Q & A

1:40 - 1:50 pm Mindfulness & Break

1:50 - 3:00 pm Breakout sessions, including:

3:00 - 3:30 pm Q & A

Closing Remarks & Thank You for Coming!

Thank You to Our Generous Sponsors!